You become dependent on the person you love....
the person you love, because
in fact you don't love,
you are simply finding
somebody to cling to;
otherwise you feel very lonely.
You want to avoid your loneliness,
you want somebody to fill your
inner black hole, your emptiness.
But real love is not an
escape from loneliness,
real love is an overflowing aloneness.
One is so happy in being alone that
one would like to share --
happiness always wants to share.
It is too much, it cannot be contained;
like the flower cannot contain its fragrance,
it has to be released.
Surrender is the highest form of love,
the purest form of love.
You will not feel dependent,
because there will be no clinging in it.
You will not feel dependent,
because it is not out of loneliness
that you have surrendered.
If you have surrendered out of
loneliness then it is not surrender at all,
then it is something else.
||OSHO||
The Book of Wisdom
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