"If somebody loves you, be thankful, but don’t demand anything — because the other has no obligation to love you.
"If somebody loves you, be thankful, but don’t demand anything — because the other has no obligation to love you.
Rather than thinking how to get love, start giving. If you give, you get.
Become individuals, that’s the first thing.
The second thing is, don’t expect perfection and don’t ask and don’t demand. Love ordinary people. Nothing is wrong with ordinary people. Ordinary people are extraordinary! Each human being is so unique; have respect for that uniqueness.
Third, give, and give without any condition — then you will know what love is. I cannot define it. I can show you the path to grow it. I can show you how to plant a rosebush, how to water it, how to give fertilizers to it, how to protect it. Then one day, out of the blue, comes the rose, and your home is full of the fragrance. That’s how love happens."
Osho
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